Is emotional baggage wearing you down?

Would you like to leave that baggage behind?

 

No Matter How Much You Might Want To …
You Can't

Unless You Answer This Question

EMOTIONAL BAGGAGE: IS IT A
CURSE OR BLESSING?

 

What's Emotional Baggage? You know, what people call . . . "your stuff" . . . "getting your buttons pushed" . . . "old wounds" . . . "shadow junk." It's the baggage YOU and EVERYBODY ELSE bring from the past — from childhood, adolescence, and former relationships.

If you're not aware of your baggage — and your partner's baggage — you're at the mercy of unconscious drives that will run you and run your relationship — most often into the ground!

On this page letter we take you into what emotional baggage is, how we struggled with it in our own lives, and what happens when you get clear and stop letting emotional baggage run your life.

Don't just take our word for it, here's what Linda Riddle said about her success with our program:

	Deep and Simple Understanding "I've been on the journey of releasing my own "emotional baggage" for some time now and your program helped me gather more in-depth but simple understanding of the hurts that I have perceived and the triggers that so often bring those "hurts" to the surface. I will share your website with my friends so they can benefit from your teachings." - Linda Riddle, Chesapeake, VA

Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski

Las Vegas, NV

"Hey, Judith and Jim, how can you even say that emotional baggage might be a blessing?
Everybody knows that emotional baggage can destroy your relationships, and everything that’s important to you."

A lot of people do believe that, but not all. We don't and you don't have to either.

Far from being a curse, your emotional baggage can actually be the source of a deeper, more connected, more intimate relationship with those you love and your colleagues and friends!

But the First Question is —
Would You Be Willing to Drop Your Baggage?

Seriously . . . would you let go of your baggage if you could? Not all at once, but for real?

We assume you're saying  "Yes." But we know  that "Yes" is most often followed with "How?"

Good question. How?

Here's the catch. We all become very used to lugging around our emotional baggage. You know what we mean:

• Those criticisms you level at yourself that make you anxious and self-conscious and keep you from being who you really know you are
• The self-judgments that keep you stuck doing the same thing over and over hoping things will change
• Every fear, heartache, fantasy that hovers in your imagination like a whispering ghost 
• Those mind-bending, soul-twisting internal attacks that keep you on guard against yourself
  AND after a time, they leave you with . . .
• Spirit breaking loneliness

That's the heavy cost of living with unconscious emotional baggage.

	Before – Nah! . . . After — Wow! "Thanks Judith and Jim. I wasn't a believer in psychological stuff until I heard you two. You should have your own talk show. What you teach is so real, and it really works." - Michael McCall, Little Rock, AR

Jim Discovered a Heavy Piece of Baggage When We Were in Venice, Italy on Our Honeymoon

Although I (Jim) had never been in Venice before, I saw a sign for something called Gobo of the Rialto. I didn't know what it was but I felt compelled to see it.

Following the signs, we found our way to the Rialto, a major commercial district in the city. And there, at an outdoor produce market, behind a chain link fence and surrounded by crates and crates of vegetables, stood Gobo . . .

A statue, maybe four feet tall, of a man stooped over by a massive block of stone he was balancing on his shoulder and back.

When I saw him I became deeply quiet. Why did I search out this figure? What was driving me? After a moment, the answer was plain:

I WAS Gobo. To some degree, we all are.  Gobo — bent over because of his heavy "baggage."

Seeing him freed me in a way that, up to that point, I'd never experienced before. A large chunk of the stone I was shouldering fell away.

And that's part of what we want for you — to have a large chunk of your baggage fall away.

	Release Yourself Through Love "Judith and Jim are healers. They have an extraordinary ability to dissect highly-charged, disruptive behavior to reveal the connections to emotional damage suffered during childhood. Not only do they describe the pathology of emotional baggage, they reveal how love can triumph in recognizing, resolving, and releasing the pain." - Fred Smith, Virginia Beach, VA

Do You See Your Emotional Baggage
as a Curse or Blessing?

Emotional Baggage lurks in the shadows of your awareness.  And because it's hidden, it possesses an awesome power to run your life.

But can emotional baggage be a blessing? There is no question that it can.  Because when you pay attention to the signals that rise up as "baggage," the care you give to those old wounded parts of you will pay off in rewards you can't even  imagine beforehand — especially in your relationships, and most especially with the person closest to you.

We call it the healing power of relationship . . . and it's a true blessing.

	No More Tantrums "What we used to think were tantrums, thanks to you two we now call "emotional baggage" eruptions. And we now know they are not a curse but a real blessing to our relationship, allowing us to know each other more deeply and to connect more intimately as love heals us." - Anne Miller, Windham, NY

Make the Decision to Unpack Your Emotional Baggage And Watch Your Own Gobo Dissolve in Front of Your Eyes

A lot of people talk about emotional baggage but not many know how to deal with it — or show you how to deal with it at a deep enough level that it can be healed. So it becomes a back breaker to say nothing of a relationship killer.

But that doesn't have to happen. You CAN release emotional baggage, and when you do — this is what's possible:

• Let go of anxiety, depression, and dread
• Gain emotional and spiritual vitality
• Enjoy self-control through self-awareness
• Achieve a deeper appreciation of life and love
• Come to a better understanding of you and the one you love
• Delight in the sweeter and richer intimacy between the two of you

Experiencing any one of these could turn your life around. Reaching two or three or all of them — and remember, this is just a sampling of what's possible — just imagine what your life could be . . . not just your relationship . . . your life as a whole.

As We Asked Before — Are You Willing?
When You Say "Yes," You'll Be Ready to:

Stop the Emotional Baggage — yours and your partner's — from undermining your relationship.

• Clear the way for your excellence to shine and lead the way in your life
• Free up your capacity for love and intimacy and let them become part of your everyday life 
• So you will no longer suffer the disabling effects of the Emotional Baggage you carry.

What would that be worth to you? Isn't that an absurd question? It would be priceless!

Get Your Copy of Our One-Hour
Personal Process Program
Emotional Baggage: Is It a Curse of Blessing?

When you do, you'll discover:

• What emotional baggage is . . . (You can't do anything about it unless you know what you're looking for)
• What is at the very heart of emotional baggage . . . (Most people have no idea about this)
• How to recognize emotional baggage in your life . . . (The first step toward releasing it)
• How emotional baggage damages your relationship(s) . . . (Painful misinterpretations are most
  common) . . . and
• What you need to do to unpack and free yourself.  

 

	Foolish Not to Claim My Own Copy "I hesitated ordering your audio download. There's so much out there that promises the sky and delivers mud. But not you two. You don't scrimp on the information you deliver. And there is so much valuable stuff I would have been foolish not to order! " - Paul Meriden, Spokane, WA

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Because It's All in the Connection,

Judith & Jim

PS - In case you've never been with us before and would like to know a little about who we are, we're a husband-and-wife psychology team and the best-selling authors of four relationship books:

Be Loved for Who You Really Are
The New Intimacy: Discovering the Magic at the Heart of Your Differences  
Opening to Love 365 Days a Year

The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams

With our latest book, The Heart of Marketing: Love Your Customers and They Will Love You Back, we bring our expertise in relationship and emotional connection to the marketplace and show how you can succeed I business, make a substantial profit, and not compromise your personal or professional integrity.

We've been guest experts on over 1500 television and radio shows including Oprah, The O'Reilly Factor, 48 Hours, CNN, Canada AM, The Daly Buzz and The View.

We named our company The Magic of Differences because at the heart of our work is the message that embracing and learning from your differences is the key to successful loving and living.