FINALLY BECOME ONE OF THEM

“Congratulations, You Have Arrived at the Place You've Been Looking For.”

You owe it to yourself to read this page and find out how you can lay open the root of why you hold yourself back, and ensure you will never do it again. That's an achievement worth talking about.

Judith & Jim

 

08-20-08
From: Judith & Jim
Windham, New York

Dear Friend,

What do you find yourself doing when you‘re faced with a challenge? You probably jump right in and do what it takes to get the job done. Because that's who you are. Smart. Accomplished. A doer.

But what about that whole other part of you? You know, where the gnawing ache lives — that feeling in your gut that you could be so much more if you could only find the way.

We congratulate you for being a doer, but . . . 

The part of you we want to talk to, the part that brought you here, is the ache — your longing for something more. What's at the core of that ache? What makes you feel like you're stuck? And somehow, in some mysterious way, you feel like you're the one who's doing it.

But, doing what?

It's the Fear of Being Fabulous™, That's What!
And here's a simple way you can prove it to yourself.

How do you respond when someone compliments you? Not your work, but you, who you are.

Do you open wide, take in what they say, and follow it with a heartfelt and sincere “Thank You” — because you know it's true.

Or do you brush it off with an awkward, self-conscious version of, “Aw, it's nothing.” 

Or do you let it slide and not acknowledge it at all?

Sounds like a simple question, right? But don't be fooled. Your answer is as profound as anything you can imagine. Because your answer determines whether or not you struggle with The Fear of Being Fabulous™.

And what is The Fear of Being Fabulous?

It's not about what you do. It's about who you think you are.

When the spotlight gets turned on you, do you use any one of a thousand tricks to turn it aside,  turn it down, turn it off —

Because something inside: 

• Won't let you simply and honestly take in all that praise and recognition
• Won't let you stand apart from the crowd
• Won't let you be fully who you are and shine in the brightness of your talents and gifts

That's The Fear of Being Fabulous. That's the source of the ache that lives inside, and it won't  be silenced no matter how successful you become.

Nothing can quiet that ache except a clear, no-nonsense grasp of the beliefs and images you have about yourself — a set of psychological blocks you are completely loyal to, and you don't even know it.

To SET YOURSELF FREE you have to understand . . .

• How the root of your psychological blocks got started
• How it operates
• How you can identify its tell-tale signs
• How it forbids you to step outside of who you've been
• What you can do to change and ultimately rid yourself of it

You can Overcome Your Fear of Being Fabulous and set yourself free to stand at the center of who you are, without discomfort or guilt, shame or sin, and recognize what is true and real for you.

	My Life Changed 360 No matter what I tried, I still couldn't figure out what was holding me back. But you two cracked it wide open. And with your help, I've changed my career, started a wonderful new relationship, and have never felt better about myself. Marie Arvin, Phoenix, AZ

 

How Can We Be So Sure About All This?

Here's what we had to do.

We grew up in households that were very repressive. Judith's family demanded perfection and punished her when she wasn't perfect. And the message was? “Don't make a move unless you can prove your worth by being perfect.”

AND whatever perfection was supposed to be was a moving target so she could never know if   she was getting it right. Try forming a Fabulous sense of Self under those conditions.

Do you recognize that scenario?

Jim came from an environment — his family, church, neighborhood — that openly and sometimes brutally crushed desire. When he got excited about something and dared to express his desire, he was cut down with contempt and suffered terrible shame.

That's right, desire was damned as evil. Try stoking up your Fabulousness under that threat.

And how did those beginnings show up in our later lives? We have similar stories:

We were both actors in our twenties.

JUDITH: I was signed by Marty Boehm, one of the top talent agents in Hollywood.

He said: “You know you're not a major personality yet. To help develop your talent, we have a free acting class on Monday nights. I want you attend. It'll be really terrific for you.”

Do you think I was there, bright and early, asking for help?

Nooooooo. I never attended. Why? I didn't want to expose how inadequate I felt.

Here's Jim's version.

JIM:  I was a member of the acting company at the Loretta Hilton Repertory Theater in St. Louis. At one point I was asked if I wanted to be the Artistic Director. The Artistic Director is the person who plans the seasons and hires the actors and directs some of the shows.

At first  I was thrilled. But when I had to let them know my decision, I told them . . .  I was not ready.

I'd even developed an extensive story to justify to myself and explain to them just how not ready I was . . . I was a person of responsibility. I had a respect for the theater. So I would not trash it with inexperience . . . blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

The truth is I couldn't allow myself to have that kind of ambition and desire.

Those are just two examples how The Fear of Being Fabulous sabotaged our opportunities. And did we feel fear? No. We didn't. Because we believed the stories we told ourselves.

Now, we're long past that. We don't chase rainbows anymore — no more disappointments, no more confusion. Instead of looking up to those who have what we wanted we've joined them and have never looked back.

That's how we can be so sure when we say that you can do what we did, because we know the terrain — inside and out. With our Overcoming the Fear of Being Fabulous MP3 audio download and PDF transcript you CAN find your own freedom.

	I Thought I Knew So Much Previously, I sure fooled myself in believing that I wasn't afraid of being fabulous. Now, I am sheepishly laughing that the truth has finally caught up with me. No worries, now that I know where the itch is . . . I'm going to scratch on the right spot! Thank you so much again for what you do! Chutamanee Nielsen, Haderslev, Denmark

Open up your life . . . release your creativity . . . find the love of your life . . . let your ambition
free . . . re-ignite your determination . . . and get the results that are now firing the cells in your brain
and getting your heart to pound.

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You're Invited . . .

To a personal freedom experience, a chance at liberation from your internal rules, where 
OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF BEING FABULOUS
and
OPENING TO THE FREEDOM TO BE FABULOUS

**Will be what you're all about . . .
** What you will be encouraged and supported to choose, and
** How you will be celebrated when you say — YES I CAN AND I WILL !!

Yes      Yes      Yes     Yes     and     Yes I Can and I Will !!!

Yes I Can and I Will »

 

Here's What You Can Expect from the Audio and PDF Download.

You can begin to:

	Recognize the signs and signals of The Fear of Being Fabulous so you can keep from falling into its sticky traps
	Redefine what Success means to you so you can Succeed Every Day and watch your life take the path you've always known was right in front of you
	Embrace the Decision that will Lead You to Liberation and Freedom so that every day becomes another step in the fulfillment of your dream
	Identify people in your life who are invested in holding you back and understand how you became attracted to them in the first place
	Know why you need to leave them behind and how to sever the ties with forgiveness and without guilt
	Refuse to sell yourself short any longer and stop playing small
	Abandon Fantasy and Illusion . . . in favor of Reality, because only in reality can your dreams actually take root and grow
	Grab onto Your Rightful Place in the world that place that expresses who you are in all of your dimensions
	Let Yourself Be Fabulous

 

	Getting to the Bottom Judith and Jim's training is the ticket to getting to the bottom of what stands in your way. I can't speak highly enough about it. Tim Buttle, Hermosa Beach, California

 

I'm Ready »

 

You Have to Ask Yourself . . .

If you pass up this chance to get beyond . . .Wanting . . . Trying . . . Praying . . . for SUCCESS . . .  Feeling Out of It . . . Left Behind, and . . . Ultimately Hopeless . . .

WHAT OLD INTERNAL COMMAND ARE YOU BEING LOYAL TO — ARE YOU SUBMITTING TO — GIVING YOUR LIFE AWAY TO — RIGHT NOW?

Because either you've got everything in your life taken care of, or some old programming is running your decision. And that's a fact.

So Now, It's Your Moment of Freedom and Action

Make the decision to get for yourself the edited audio file PLUS the PDF transcript, and you can download both for our special offer of just $37.

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	Tools That Work I've taken many workshops that seemed to make sense while I was attending, but once I stepped out, I was unable to apply anything. Judith and Jim's process gave me techniques and tools that work. I was able to use them to break an old pattern and I am so grateful. Nila Newkum, Culver City, California

Because It's All in the Connection,

Judith & Jim

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