Want the Pleasure of Sweet, Tender Romance . . . the Real Thing?
Not Just Now and Then but EVERY DAY?
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Yes, I Want More Romance >>
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ROMANCE CAN BE YOURS
ANYTIME!
ANYWHERE!"It's Not Your Fault That You're Yearning for More Romance.
You Were Never Taught the Secrets To Keeping Romance Alive"
ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SAY– YES.
WILL YOU?
No matter how much you try . . . No matter how much you struggle against it . . . No matter how much your heart yearns for it . . .
If your relationship is like most others, sooner or later the sweet romance of the early years . . . that dazzling, blissful time in the beginning that seemed like a miracle . . .
That time of wonderful promise . . . of endless possibilities
That time . . . fades . . . and romance fades with it . . .
For some, it disappears, never to be had again.
It’s a deep loss, a loss that almost everybody suffers so much so that it seems like just part of being alive.
Like it’s written somewhere that you can have romance only in a short burst, and, after that . . . well . . .you know . . .
You may comfort yourself with the thought that . . .”It’s a mystery.”
But the memory and the longing for romance never goes away. Never.
It becomes a wish in the night. Part of your secret prayer. A deep desire that refuses to remain silent.
What Men and Women Want
Several years ago we conducted a nationwide survey. We asked this question to over 6000 men and women:
"What do you most want to know about relationships?"
Their answers covered a lot of categories – sex, children, money, communication, conflict.
BUT the overwhelming answer –
83% of everyone who responded said, in some way or another:
HOW DO YOU KEEP ROMANCE ALIVE?
83% wanted a way to prevent the wonder, the joy, the fulfillment of romance from fading into the background of their relationship – if not out the back door, gone forever.
Even though you may be surprised that so many said the same thing, it’s not really a surprise. Not if you think about it for a second.
If everyone knew how to keep romance alive and burning there would be no need for a day like Valentine’s Day – as the ONE day of the year for romance.
Why?
Because every day would be a day for romance.
Does that sound like wishful thinking? Fantasy thinking? Maybe even nutty thinking?
And What About Those Who Said Sex?
Okay, what about sex?
No one’s denying that sex is important. Not at all.
But where does fabulous sex – passionate, fantastic, deep and loving sex – where does it come from?
You know that sex can be the least intimate – that’s right – the least intimate experience you can have. (You may be surprised to know that both women AND men feel that way sometimes.)
Sex devoid of intimacy, of closeness, of caring - both ways - from him to her and her to him – is just that. Sex. Period.
Still . . . isn’t what you want – really want — to make love?
Exactly.
But where does making love – sweet, tender, passionate making love come from?
From the both of you – together – from your willingness – from your openness – from your sharing and caring – in other words – from real and honest intimacy. Emotional intimacy every day.
That’s how you keep romance alive.
Making Love Out of Bed
But most people believe that making love can only happen at certain times, and only in certain places, and that sure puts a crimp on when and where, doesn’t it?
So love making becomes sex, romance becomes obligation, and intimacy . . . intimacy is long gone.
So, what can you do?
All you need is to open your mind beyond your current imaginings. . . and the possibilities are endless.
It's that simple
How is that?
By Making Love Out Of Bed.
Openhearted, passionate love making is not based in sex, but in the affection, respect, laughter, admiration, attention, pleasure, care, playfulness, and acceptance the two of you can give to each other every minute of every day. That’s what we call Making Love Out Of Bed.
When you're not making love out of bed . . . then, what happens in bed . . . is usually just sex . . . and "just sex" can never be fulfilling . . . as you already know.
So, you see, making love out of bed is not a clever turn of phrase. It’s the foundation of real romance – a romance you can trust and enjoy – and depend upon to keep your relationship alive as long as you can imagine.
By Making Love Out Of Bed, we promise you this . . .
You will re-kindle the joy and pleasure of romance . . .and you will open to a new depth of connection and emotional intimacy . . . AND that will create a foundation for the best love making of your life.
AND – it’s easier than you think.
Keeping Romance Alive
To show you how to keep romance alive, we’ve put together – into one package – two of our most popular CDs.
"Keeping Romance Alive"
One of our most in-depth, popular and successful teleseminars.
(1 Hour)Making Love Out of Bed
You learn our secrets for how you can make love in ways that have nothing to do with bed.
(1 Hour)
Keeping Romance Alive keeps me accountable to myself. This is why I listen again and again so I can hold my focus on what I truly want.
With gratitude,
Wendy Lucas, Virginia Beach, VAHere’s what the CDs are about.
No, no . . . first, here’s what they are NOT about.
- They’re NOT about 1001 sex positions to “spice up” your life
- They’re NOT about seducing or being seduced
- They’re NOT about games, lies, or cheap pick-up lines
They Are About –
- Discovering deeper intimacy with your love-partner
- Enjoying the true happiness that comes with having that closeness
- Knowing, for a fact, that you are loved for who you really are
- Knowing that you can trust that love because it's based on real intimacy
- Making every single day special, not because of a special circumstance, but because you're simply together.
- Making love out of bed so that the moment you do make love in bed, you've got the intimacy, romance, desire, and willingness to give yourself to it
Making Love Out of Bed is more than revolutionary. It’s evolutionary. It changed the whole way I look at being with my man. Talk about romance. It’s everywhere.
Patricia Henry, Atlanta, GA
What’s More...In Keeping Romance Alive here’s more of what you’ll discover —
The problem with romance and how you can quickly identify it so that it doesn't bring you failure in your relationship.
The difference between "Hollywood" romance and REAL romance... not knowing this is what kills most marriages and relationships.
The beauty you'll discover in REAL romance.
Many women say that men really aren't romantic... that they pretend to be romantic in order to get them into bed. Is that true? And why is the answer important to your relationship.
The #1 most important question you need to answer about romance . . . not answering this is the quickest way to heartbreak.
What to do if you don't have time to make love in bed.
3 secrets for creating romance, even if... it's been a long time since you've been romantic.
If Cupid came with a book of instructions, Judith & Jim would have written the manual.
Tom Justin, Las Vegas, NV
And here’s more of what you’ll discover in Making Love Out of Bed —
How the movies, TV, and mass media are misleading you and your relationship and what to do about it.
The #1 reason why most relationships fail . . . not knowing this can only guarantee failure...
What is making love? What is making love out of bed?
The #1 thing your man (or woman) wants to hear from you.
What intimacy REALLY means . . . it’s NOT what most people think it is.
4 ways to easily make love out of bed every day.
How curiosity is one of the world's most powerful aphrodisiacs.
There's a lot more that we cover in these CDs, but again, this is all about you and your relationship so that you can truly enjoy each other in ways that most people only dream of.
My wife Jen and I have discovered depths of closeness we didn’t even know about. And that’s not just good for us. It makes us better for our kids. And that’s the whole package.
Mike Swenard, Des Moines, IA
Something Very Special
Here’s what the CD Package looks like.
Both of these mastered audio presentations have been edited and mixed to play on your CD player at home, or in your car.
AND the information you’ll get with this package is not available anywhere else. It’s not theory. Not just ideas. But real, practical, enjoyable guidance that’s worked for thousands of others and now it can work for you.
You can have this Special Romance Package (not available anywhere else)
for Only........... $67.
But wait, before you decide, we want to include A Companion Bonus . . .
"Communication . . . Lousy, or Loving?"
This 1-Hour Audio Download . . . a Value of $47 . . . will be automatically included when you order today.
At NO additional charge to you.
In "Communication . . . Lousy or Loving?" you'll receive new information about how your everyday conversations can be improved to create better understanding and more closeness.
And, you'll get the inside scoop on what to watch for . . . in your everyday talking . . . that may be getting in the way of the romantic connection you so dearly want.
That's right, "Communication . . . Lousy or Loving?" . . . a $47 Value, yours absolutley FREE when you order today.
AND, wait, there's also NO RISK to you.
We're so sure that this Special Romance Package will open the door to your love life . . .
So You Can Enjoy Real Romance Every Day, Anywhere . . .
That we're giving you our 365-Day No-Questions Asked Money-Back Guarantee (as long as you return this product in the condition you received it).
There . . . you have it . . .
Romance, real romance anywhere and all the time. What could be better?
Keeping Romance Alive and Making Love Out of Bed are perfect for you and that special someone in your life.
All you have to do now . . . is say YES.
Not to us, but to yourself.
To a better relationship . . .
Yes, s o you can be yourself . . .and
Yes, to loving each other in ways like never before.
Keep Romance Alive . . . Making Love Out Of Bed . . . every day for the rest of your life.
That’s where sweet, tender, passionate love making comes from.
All you have to do is say – Yes.
It’s All in the Connection,
Judith & JimPS - Just So You're Absolutely Certain . . .
In case you don't know us . . .
We’re bestselling authors, and husband-and-wife psychology team Judith Sherven, Ph.D. and Jim Sniechowski, Ph.D.
Our confidence in this Keeping Romance Alive package comes from . . .
Working with singles and couples, nationally and internationally, for over 19 years . . .
Inspiring them with our lively and fun . . . yet . . . get-right-to-the-heart-of-the-issue AND take-action approach.
We're never afriad to share stories from our own dating, wedding, and 18 year marriage
And our approach has attracted a large and loyal following.
We are also the proud authors of four books:
“Be Loved For Who You Really Are”
“The New Intimacy.”
“Opening to Love 365 Days a Year”
“The Smart Couple's Guide to the Wedding of Your Dreams"AND we've been featured as guest experts on over 1100 television and radio shows including Oprah, The View, The O'Reilly Factor, 48 Hours, The Daily Buzz, Canada AM, and CNN.
AND
We named our company The Magic of Differences because the heart of our message is that embracing and learning from differences is the key to successful loving and living.
So, we know what we're talking about.
That's why you can trust us . . .
And why you shouldn't hesitate . . .
To Say YES!
We invite you to visit our websites:
www.judithandjim.com
www.smartweddingcouples.com
