So Why Does Dating Have to Be Such an Ordeal?
Because for so many people dating's been just one bad experience after another . . . and even when dates aren't bad, they're not really good.
But since dating's the way most men and women go about trying to find The One . . . it's either dating or nothing. Don't you think it would be important to uncover why dating's so crazy making?
So we decided to ask.
We took two international surveys asking men and women . . . "What Do You Most Want To Know About Dating?"
We had a fantastic response — 58% women and 42% men. They ranged in age between 22 and 68 and both men and women had similar things to say.
Here are a few of their questions that begin to shed light on the problem.
When you ask even one of these questions and don't have the answer . . . you start out every date trying to catch up . . . and you don't even know what to "catch up" to?
That's what makes dating such a depressing ordeal.
BUT . . . inside every one of these questions there‘s a HIDDEN MISTAKE that causes the anxiety, heartache, worry, self-doubt, fear of rejection . . . you name it . . .
A hidden mistake that, once you know it, you'll begin to see your way out of the mess dating's been for you.
AND . . . what's that mistake?
Imagine this . . .
You're sitting at dinner, or out for a walk and your head's just chattering away with . . .
"Why is he looking at me that way? Is there something wrong?"
Or "Does she mean what she says, or not? What does she want from me?"
Remember a time when you were caught in that kind of rattling anxiety.
Did you ever ask to find out if what you thought was happening was actually really truly happening?
Chances are you didn't.
And when you're both doing it, what chance is there to feel comfortable and make a real connection?
So, How Can You Stop Suffering
There is one single most important question to ask yourself about dating . . . and when you know the answer, you'll know where you stand each and every time
|By knowing how to recognize real success on any date . . . you can stop the trap of playing catch-up and all the fear and doubt that goes along with it.|
|When you know how to avoid the triggers that make you uncomfortable . . . you are free to enjoy every date . . . every single time . . . and the door opens to finding The One!|
If this is what you need to stop the dating struggle, get our new program — Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed!. . . and join the community of Smart Daters across the country.
Don't Put Up With Another Dead End
"Stop dating like you have two left feet! This is the last resource you will need to turn your love life around. After years of reading dating and relationship material, Smart Dating is now my breakthrough "how to" guide. It's dating skills for the 21st Century. I now know what to look for, what to avoid, and how to be my own best ally. Don't put up with another dead-end, emotional drain, or unreciprocated love."
- Joher Coleman
Here's Judith's story:
"I can still remember those nights when I was so depressed. I cried myself to sleep. The closest I ever got to marriage was being engaged-to-be-engaged — twice.
"I knew there was more to dating than what I was doing . . . if only I could figure it out.
"Then suddenly, I got it. Like a revelation . . . a thunderstroke . . . an insight that changed my life . . . forever. Not long that after I met Jim on a blind date and we've been married for 19 years.
Now Listen to Jim:
"My first marriage happened because I was young and I believed I was supposed to get married. Bad reason. My second marriage looked like it was going to last forever. But then life threw a nasty wedge between us and, try as I could, nothing would hold it together.
"After that, I decided I would never again do what I'd always done, even if it meant never being in another relationship. And that decision opened me up to possibilites I'd never seen before.
"When I met Judith, I knew, we both knew, some very special change had happened."
We both got past the fantasies and daydreams we had about dating and took back control over what we were doing. Without the other knowing it, we both made the same vow:
|No more games . . . they only lead to more games.|
|No more trying to impress . . . trying to be what we were not.|
|No more trying to figure out how dates were supposed to be . . . instead we made them what we wanted them to be.|
Recommending Your Approach
Every woman I know puts on a "front" when dating and it is never who she really is, so she never attracts who she would really be compatible with. Amazing! But, since I listened to your Smart Dating teleseminar, I will be recommending your approach to all my single girlfriends!
- Deborah Genovesi,
Imagine you're getting ready to go out. And, instead of worrying about what you look like, or if you're interesting enough . . . or how you're going to act, or what you'll say, or if she'll like you, or if he'll call
back . . .
You're completely relaxed, eager to discover what will happen. How does that feel?
How does it feel to know that, no matter what happens, you can trust . . . down to your toes . . . that you're going to be okay . . . so that you won't ever again leave a date feeling frustrated, rejected, or like you wasted your time?
Because . . . once you begin Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed! . . . you'll be able to make dating everything you want it to be . . . in fact, much more than you now imagine it can be.
Because here's what our "Success Every Time" program has in store for you.
You will finally discover:
|How to protect yourself from the emotional risks of dating . . . this alone is worth more than the whole package|
|Why "traditional"dating is not in your best interest . . . because it's about everything BUT your best interest|
|That you can get what you want out of every date . . . no matter how it goes|
|How to feel comfortable being in control . . . without the date being all about you|
|How to get rid of the pre-date butterflies . . .there won't be any need|
|What to do if you get into a conflict on a date . . . so you won't feel overwhelmed|
|How to recognize the kind of dating mind-set that leads to all kinds of problems . . .
|How being passive is the worst thing you can do . . . this is especially true for women|
|How Smart Dating is NOT about manipulation, coping, giving the benefit of the doubt . . . but IS about the fabulous freedom to be who you are|
I Have a Real Relationship
I learned real-life relationship skills in your seminars and books that finally helped me have a real relationship and wonderful marriage. You've changed my life forever. And besides all the "work" you two have put out, your wonderful, uplifting energy is healing and inspirational to everyone who comes in contact with you.
- Kelly Cline, PhD
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If you take in and practice Smart Dating for Success Every Time - Guaranteed . . .
|You'll determine your purpose for dating and how this shapes every date you have . . . because without a purpose, you're at the mercy of whatever the other person does . . . and you don't want that|
|You'll know where to go to meet people you'll want to date . . . people who will be interested in someone just like you . . . and that's a matchmaker's dream|
|You'll be able to speak your mind without fear . . . so fear won't be a problem, and discover that that's a key to being attractive to The One who's looking for you.|
|You'll never have to tolerate one of those dreadful blind dates ever again . . . because there's an easy solution|
|You'll know that details like who pays the bill are no longer a problem . . . and it won't matter whether you're the man or the woman|
|You'll be able to spot your emotional resistance and know what to do about it . . . so you're negative head talk can't rule the date.|
|You'll take care of yourself first without being selfish at all . . . another key to being far more attractive than you now even imagine.|
|You'll understand the "Date the Way You Want to Mate" principle . . . and why it leads to successful marriage . . . a marriage built on real connection and feelings you can count on long term|
Glimmer with Possibility
Your "Smart Dating Program" showed me how to see the light at the end of the tunnel and now I have real tools to create a healthy and satisfying relationship. Thank you both for your dedication and ease in sharing your gifts. The shared honesty of your lives and relationship makes the road ahead glimmer with possibility.
- Candy Listowski
Of course there are. And if you're looking at other programs be sure to check them out carefully. If they don't provide at least most of what we're making available to you, then we ask why bother?
On the other hand, Smart Dating For Success Every Time - Guaranteed is exactly right for you only if you're serious and want to turn dating into an experience that leads to finding the one you're looking for.
Because finding The One . . . that's the whole point. Right
Make up your mind that you will:
|Not continue doing what you've always done before. Why would you want to keep
|No longer treat yourself in any way that keeps you stuck. You wouldn't treat others
|Make an investment in the kind of life you want. Not short-term but real intimacy.|
|Commit to your future. It's yours for the making.|
|And Start Right Now.|
Because the Smart Dating package goes deep into the heart of what makes dating work . . . every time . . . without fail.
So when you start right now and secure your copy of the Smart Dating program, you'll get:
|8 MP3 audio file downloads . . . covering dating from start to finish:
#2 - Where Do You Focus: Inside or Out?
#3 - The Most Important Question You Must Answer
#4 - How Not to Give Yourself Away
#5 - The Hidden Blocks that Keep You Stuck
#6 - Chemistry and Connection: One or Both?
#7 - Change — The Key to Your Freedom
#8 - Finding "The One"
|The Smart Dating PDF handbook transcript which includes the entire program along with Personal Action Plans that add to and support your listening|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Survey — designed specifically to help you get a clear picture of how you approach dating and why|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Worth Survey — designed specifically to help you see and accept the value you bring to each and every date|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Take-Action Survey — designed specifically to motivate you to step forward toward your goals and dreams|
|Six Inspiring Articles (read by men and women around the world):
The Masks We Wear
Are You Dating With Pizzazz?
On the Other Side of Insecurity
Forbidden Fruit . . . Or Not?
Be Loved for Who You Really Are
|5 Personal Take-Action Plans|
|Your Personal Romance I.Q. Quiz|
|40 Places to Meet and Mingle|
It's really simple.
All you have to do is give the Smart Dating Program your honest and sincere effort. You must be completely delighted with the information you get from this course or we'll send you every penny back . . . no questions asked. (And you'll even get to keep theentire download package).
The "Smart Dating" Package contains:
|The 8 CD Program|
|The Smart Dating Handbook|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Survey|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Self-Worth Survey|
|Your Personal Smart Dating Take Action Survey|
|Six In-Depth Motivational Articles|
|5 Personal Take-Action Plans|
|Your Personal Romance I.Q. Quiz|
|40 Places to Meet and Mingle|
|15 Follow-up Tips|
|And our Good Faith Guarantee|
Because we're so committed to your success, we're taking all the risk so there's zero risk to you.
My Focus Shifted
My curiosity got the best of me when you said, " Make every date a success." I thought either they are full of bull or they're preaching some phoney game-playing system. But after about ten minutes my focus shifted. I realized I was focusing on the wrong outcome. Thank you for helping everyone get straight about what dating is really all about.
- Korby Waters, New Jersey
|"The Art of Small Talk" — a One-Hour CD showing you how to master small talk and be comfortable in any social situation. ( $97 Value)|
No More Small Talk Anxiety
This helped me greatly to overcome my small talk anxiety and become more comfortable in conversations. I'm dating with little concern about small talk anxiety before a date.
|Emotional Baggage: Curse or Blessing? — the One-Hour Audio and PDF Transcript Download of our very powerful personal process program so you can open your baggage and discover your blessings. ($97.00 Value)|
For a Deeper Connection
You showed us that "emotional baggage"is not a curse but a real blessing, allowing us to know each other more deeply and to connect more intimately.
- Anne Miller
|Overcoming Negative Head Talk — a One-Hour Audio and PDF Transcript Download, so you can uncover and eliminate the voice in your head that keeps you down.
What You Can Do
You opened the doors by showing me how negative head talk begins and how it builds on itself. But most important you showed me what I can do about it.
- Joe Masden
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